The Long Goodbye
– Aaralyn,
Mount Vernon, OH
This is a tribute to my husband, my Marine. Jim was a 22 year veteran, and in 2006, he was diagnosed with fast progressive Alzheimers. For a moment, my life stopped, and then I made the promise to Jim and myself that I would continue my unconditional love and never, ever give up. Sadly, I had to admit him in Assisted Living in 2007, but I never waivered on my promise. I saw him twice everyday and continued our weekly date nights. As time passed, and he declined it became more difficult, but my love and will never gave up. This journey , although hearbreaking, taught me just how precious life is and never to take anyone or anything for granted. I told my husband daily how much I loved him and we sang the Marine Corp Hymn everyday, even when he couldn't remember. I have always been a caring person, but I believe enduring this pain has only opened my heart even more. I cry, laugh, hurt, and love more than ever before. Sadly, my husband's journey ended on the morning of December 14, 2009. Needless to say, I am heartbroken however, I have many wonderful memories to treasure, and my promise to him and myself is to ALWAYS live with an Open Heart! I lost my soulmate and best friend, but I will never lose those memories and deep love we shared. I believe he is a Marine in Heaven now. Thank You!
– Aaralyn,
Mount Vernon, OH
The Long Goodbye
You have to give to get!
– Christie,
Auburn, WA
Growing up, I had a lot of disappointments and it was difficult for me to trust and open myself up to other people. One day, someone said "You know you have to give to get." At first I thought that it was an arrogant statement and once again someone was asking for something from me once again. But, I really thought about that statement and it stuck with me. I decided I would give and see what that turned into. I'm glad that I did because it changed my philosophy in life. Sometimes giving can be giving to others to make yourself feel better. I try to approach everything openly and take things for what they are. However, most of the time I am pleasantly surprised with how things come back into my life through my openness!
– Christie,
Auburn, WA
You have to give to get!
Love and Open Heart Do Conquer All
– Genevieve,
Berkeley Springs, WV
My story starts out rather sad, but has a happy ending. I grew up with my grandparents until their death. I was thirteen. I then moved with my mother and stepfather. I was so severely sexually abused, that Doctors said children wouldn't be possible for me. After college my sweetheart finally persuaded me to marry him. Even if I could not give him children. I had to open my heart to just trust a man we dated 8 years before I married him and were friends 5 before I would agree to "date". I did keep an open heart, I could hear my grandmother encouraging me to not close myself off. I have been married 16 years now and have 2 beautiful girls that I gave birth to. I lost 3 babies, so I often say I have two children here and 3 waiting for me in heaven, where I am sure my Grandmother is watching over them, as well as me and my girls. I was diagnosed with MS 14 years ago, but still dance everyday. An open heart has helped to keep my body healthy, I am in wonderful shape for the years I have had my diagnosis. As a dancer, losing control of my body is hard, but again, I won't give up or close my heart to the love of the daunce, as my ballet teacher pronounced it. I hope to teach my girls to have an open heart, just as my grandmother taught me. Thank you, Genevieve
– Genevieve,
Berkeley Springs, WV
Love and Open Heart Do Conquer All
Just Smile
– Lyndsey,
Kent, WA
I am a high school Physical Education teacher and see many different types of students' every day. In one of my classes I have 3 special need students with 36 other regular education students. After the first week of school I knew that this was going to be a difficult class and challenging to meet the needs of all students. There were many days during the first few weeks of school that I became frustrated and overwhelmed with my classes. I questioned how I was going to meet the needs of these students who needed extra instruction and discipline. As the weeks past, the 3 students with special needs began to understand the classroom dynamics and rules, while the regular education students began to help and encourage them during classroom activities. I have begun to enjoy this class and realized that these special needs students are in my class for many reasons; to learn how to live a healthy, active life and incorporate fitness into their lifestyle outside of school. I don't know what goes on in these students' lives outside of my classroom, but my gym may be the only happy place for them. Every day there is at least one student that comes into class frustrated and off task. When I keep my heart open and can get a student to smile, I know I have done my job for the day.
– Lyndsey,
Kent, WA
Just Smile
Life Is Too Short
– Hope,
Glasgow, KY
Steve and I met on a Yahoo group about eight years ago.
We talked about everything-traded jokes and kept in touch sporadically over the years- until 2008.
In May of 2008 he was diagnosed with stage IV colon cancer. Between radiation and chemo treatments- he had little time to communicate. In November, he notified his friends and family he was having surgery. I finally heard back that the surgery was successful.
He found out I had been worrying about him- and thus began our relationship. In May of 2009, the cancer moved to his liver.
Our friendship grew stronger, and in August of 2009, he asked me to marry him. I accepted, knowing that I would lose him.
He moved from California to Kentucky to live with me and my children.
Our time together was too short. In May of 2010, we lost our home to a flood. I was fretting over things when he looked at me and told me " Where you are- Home is." Two weeks later he experienced severe pain and within two days had died. His last concious words were "Yes, I love you" to an unspoken question.
He taught me life is too short for regrets. He taught me to take what time we have and live and love- have JOY instead of "what if". He showed me a rare courage- never a complaint to me about his illness- rather his happiness at having someone who loved him enough to share his life.
– Hope,
Glasgow, KY
Life Is Too Short
Live your life
– Michelle,
Bass Harbor, ME
I was in a very abusive relationship for a few years. It took everything I had mentally to get out. I had two little girls and struggled to raise them alone. Somedays I could have shut out the world but I knew deep down that I was meant for better. The following year I found it. I found a guy who made me so happy. He loved me more me and loved my two little girls like they were his own. I knew deep inside me that I had found my soulmate. We were so happy for 5 years and on Oct. 15th, 1997 he was killed by a drunk driver. My whole world turned upside down in an instant. Once again I could have closed my heart, but I knew He would never want me to. I instead focused all my energy on doing things to keep him close to my heart and his memory alive. He was like a big kid and loved the holidays so on halloween i got a big group of kids together to decorate pumpkins. On Christmas i used the mony I would have spent on his gift for the angel tree.
I live each day showing those I love how much I do in many ways because through all of this I have learned life is a precious gift. You have to make the most of it, and truly can only do that with an open heart.
– Michelle,
Bass Harbor, ME
Live your life