My husband and I have been rebuilding our marriage for the pass 2 years. We have been married for 39 years and had a unfaithful event on his part. We are happy and have been doing our best to rebuild. As we do that we have been taking care of his elderly mother as well as mine. I lost my only brother a year ago, and we have several family deaths since then. We are raising our oldest granddaughter because her mother is on drugs and as of right now (10-13-16) he is on his death bed with cancer.