I use to be quite and shy, it wasn’t until after I realized just how much GOD loves me that I now know I can love others no matter what! I realized when GOD opened my heart I was able to love and forgive others!! I am so thankful to know JESUS!!!! Now I am a happier person, willing to forgive and love others and teach that important lesson to my granddaughters! I think you haven’t matured in life and in Christ unless we learn to love, forgive and forget WITH AN OPEN HEART!!!!!!!!!